Cougar Hunter 31 year old has 91 year old Girlfriend
I am a 38 year old female who is dating a 19 year old guy. I constantly ana. Years back, I dated a woman that was 12 years older than me. It was a If he were 30 and you 49, then he would be an adult with likely enough life experiences, personally and professionally, to know what he wants in a life partner. However, at. and the male in question basically looks the same age as the female, considering the young aspie genes in said male How would you in general feel about this? This is a completely hypothetical question and is not related in any way to my personal life but it is just something I've been thinking about wildly. 26 Apr Well, that's also a thing I believe happens when you have an older man/younger woman thing - which is, sort of a "father figure" thing going on. So, I don't . I did the exact same thing when I was When I was 19 years old I started dating my son's father who was 47 at the time this was three years ago.
How would you in general feel about this? This here a completely hypothetical question and is not related in any way to my personal life but it is just something I've been thinking about wildly of how society would see this situation. My parents were 30 and 20 when they got married. If they're both mature adults, I don't think anything of it.
He's 30, she's 19, everybody's legal so it's all good. Im 41 my gf is We met 9 years ago. Shes a stunner Im just lucky. I'd personally be against it, but that's just me.
The age gap is pretty big, a 30 year old dating a teenager does not compute in my brain. Permanently banned by power tripping mods lol this forum is trash. I don't have an issue with it, I could understand the concern a father might have in that scenario thinking the older man might be taking advantage of someone young and naive but you can't control your kids life when they're an adult.
If it's consensual I think it's totally ok. Strangers wouldn't even know from looks As with any situation where the potential for manipulation or coercion exist though, I'd say it has to be decided on a couple-by-couple basis.
Most large age gap couples I know are no more prone to such power issues than anyone else - it seems everyone only thinks of the "innocent 18 year old girl and the drug-using 30 year old man who served time for rape". Oh, and those belonging to some conservative religions as that power play can be part and parcel of the belief system.
And from those, people seem to enjoy projecting it onto every large-age-difference couple. I'd never go for someone that young, but I guess whatever floats their boat, they're both legal and it's not like she's being forced into it.
Because the article, if I'm thinking of the same one you are, was about how awesome women in their 30s are, and how dumb it is that guys don't tend to date older women. Isn't this exactly the type of brainiac a cougar lusts after? I haven't even asked her out yet but it seems like she wants me to.
Why do you think it's weird? Something about the gap just doesn't compute in my brain, something is just "off" about it. I think it'd bother me less if it was say a 22 year old and a 32 year old. I guess that's just cultural conditioning on my part though. I think it would say a lot of not so great things about the male in question.
A 30 year old and 19 year old are in two completely different places in their lives. I don't care how mature the younger one is.
But it's not like you're 16 and she's I think it's just fine if a 26 year old man is dating a 31 year old woman. Best of luck -- you're gonna need click. Is that really who you want to believe? And yes they were relationships for me not flings.
I'd just think it was questionable. Doesn't bother me at all. I feel like I couldn't date someone 10 years younger than me. I'd feel a bit awkward like I wasn't meant to be doing it, although I would date someone 10 years older than me, but then that would make them 43, so that's not really the same as an adult dating a teenager.
But if they really have a good connection and they're both happy I really don't see why it's a problem. Given that the man is identified as 'aspie' it's quite possible that he might be the less 'mature' and experienced partner.
Her Boyfriend is 40 Years Older?!
I don't care at all what other people do, but it's very much worth keeping in mind most 30 year olds know what they want from life, know how to get it, or already have it, or the resources to get it. They're just entering adult life and exploring how to be an adult in the most basic of ways.
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But if it works for some people, more power to them, and I hope they're happy. They just probably aren't.
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