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It does seem to be a 'norm' these days for 18/19 year old guys to go for the 15/16 year old girls (probably because the girls look more their age anyway). Basically, its fine if the parents don't object and if there is no sex before she is (not easy to guarantee that one). My daughter will be 17 next month. Is it bad? That's a moral question for you. Are you an emancipated minor? Does it have criminal repercussion for potential rape charges - yes it's statutory. My 15 year old step-daughter is dating a 19 year old. Her father and I only found out today as she doesn't live with us. We are really not happy with.
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Welcome to the Digital Spy forums. Categories Recent Discussions Best Of Is it wrong for a 19 year old male to go out with a 15 year old girl. Bit marginal, that one. I guess it depends on many things and without knowing all the facts, I'd say it's an impossible question to answer. As a dad, I'd probably have discouraged a daughter that age and I'd have given her plenty of advice - but that doesn't always work.
I'd probably have discouraged a son that age too but a fat lot of good that click have done LOL. Thats a tough one, my head says no, She is under age and he could take advantage of her. It very much depends on the maturity or lack of of both of them.
Some men are incredibly immature and some girls very wise for their age. I personally would think it would depend on the people involved. Legality and society says its wrong, but if both people were happy and most importantly knew what they're doing, then really it's up to them.
I guess as well, the 15 year olds parents would have to be comfortable as well, I here a lot of teenagers now have the "it's nothing to do with my parents" opinion, which I understand, but obviously, parents will worry.
There's a few years between me and my wife, I'm 27, she's 22, but she is the way more mature one. She's looking up recipies or reading while I'm trying to find Weird Al videos on Youtube.
And if this is the case, you still have a choice between abdicating responsibility and saying nothing and taking the full nuclear option of demanding they not see each other. My whole life, whether it was uncles, older male cousins, my brothers and my Dad I would warn my son that other people may see him as a criminal for doing this and ask him to really ensure the young ladies parents are OK with the situation, because they could make things hard on him.
It's probably not ideal as the 15 year old is underage legally, however as other posters said it depends on the individuals involved. Basically, its fine if the parents don't object and if there is no sex before she is The main concern I think is that the 15 year old will generally not be as serious about a relationship as a 19 year old will be so he could get hurt big time. Its very flattering at 15 to be liked by someone of I think it wrong.
My 15-year-old is dating a 19-year-old. Now what?
Flippin' heck - one of the things that used to hack me off when I was 15 was that all the girls used to go out with blokes that were much older than http://1dating.me/fet/definition-of-going-out-on-a-date.php and had cars, jobs and money!
I can't imagined that much has changed since then. I did exactly what the title says, 13 years ago. The relationship lasted 6 months. I was, at 19, about as 'world-wise' as she was - so it was a relationship that was on a level-playing-field - I was less experienced in relationships than some 19 year old blokes, and she more than many 15 year old girls.
I'm 18 With A 15 Year Old Girlfriend!!!
Looking back, though, I know that other people in our lives didn't really approve, and it was doomed to fail as she went on to college at 16 and I grew up myself!
Carry On Doctor Posts: I met my ex-husband when I was 15 and he was It felt completely right to me at the time - I was very sensible and mature and boys my age seemed to be the opposite. I was married at 18 and stayed that way for 25 years! Well what can I say I was 19 when I met this gorgeous intelligent young girl who was only 15 and days We are still together 48 years later.
So i dont believe its wrong myself. The law is not always right in my view you have mature 14 year old girls but unlikely to find a mature 14 year old boy. The problem is young adults grow up too quickly in the 21 st century and some have to grow up quicker than others. The biq question is how old should a young adult is old enough or mature enough to want sex. With the hormones working overtime.
Its very difficult to put an exact age. And if it was my daughter, The guy had better run for cover!! It is a hard question to answer IMO. If it were my daughter then I would not be too keen, however if their ages were 20 and 24 we wouldn't bat an eyelid. Although we didn't know each other at the time my OH would have been 19 when I was I can't imagine that my parents would have too keen then!
I bet if someone came here and asked "Dating a girl who is 16 tomorrow, wrong? They should still be playing on the swings, climbing trees, and playing Grand Theft Auto at that age.
When you are every year counts. There is still quite a difference between someone who is 15 and someone who is 19 still at those Dating Someone Just Because They. When i was 15 i viewed someone who was 19 as being a lot older than me.
Someone who is 15 could be in year 10 at school. The mentalities will probably be different with the 19 year old having the advantage. I know people around that age now and they come across as very young still to me. I think at that age it is best to stick to boys in your own year or boys who are the year above. If you were 20 and 24 then the age difference would not really matter. Would you tie his shoelaces together or something? He's 19 not 49 - bearing in mind girls of that age go out with older boys - they are in the same age group so is not a problem.
Follow 6 I'm not sure how a year 11 could have the experience in life, not simply sexually to have stimulating conversations with a 19 year old. However, it did not do me any good when I was first becoming sexual, and I lost alot of good years worrying too damn much about being thought of as slutty for wanting and enjoying a perfectly natural act. Should I stop my year-old daughter from dating a year-old? If they say no, then that is final.
No way is that wrong, it's just a shame in these paranoid days you have to ask. Sign In or Register to comment.