HANDLING FINANCES (AS A SINGLE MOM)
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This single parent thing is legit. Survival requires a skill set you most likely have either: a) lost, b) never used, or c) didn't have in the first place. From things like clogged sinks and lawns needing mowed, to instantly being placed in the dual role of good cop and bad cop, the tasks a single parent handles on a day-to-day . Looking back now, I realize that as a first-time single mom with a new baby on board, I was clearly emotional, exhausted, and stressed. But in that moment, I was also struck with the reality of being on my own with a child to raise, bills to pay, a household to run, and only 24 hours in the day. No wonder I felt frazzled!. How do successful single parents keep it all together? Author, blogger and single mom Christine Coppa shares her advice for surviving (and thriving) as a single parent.
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How do successful single parents keep it all together? Author, blogger and single mom Christine Coppa shares her advice for surviving and thriving as a single parent. Seek Out Role Models Single parents and their kids can flourish, and there are plenty of examples to prove it. Some of the people on my list include President Obama, who was raised by his single mom and grandparents; President Clinton, who was brought up primarily by his mom; and actress Bridget Moynahan, who went through her pregnancy alone after splitting from Patriots quarterback Tom Brady.
The longer answer is that parenthood is the biggest undertaking you'll ever face. She works full-time at a healthcare organization while her 2-year-old stays with Grandpa. This site complies with the HONcode standard for trustworthy health information: The Single-Mom Dating Guide. Without a partner, the stakes are higher.
Seeing all of these success stories and many more unfold before my eyes is proof that single parenthood is not only manageable, but an incredible gift that allows me to shape my son into a wonderful human being. If you need more inspiration, check out the book Holding Source Head High: Read Christine Coppa's blog about being a single parent, Mama's Boy.
So, I took a deep breath and asked my boss if I could work a slightly different schedule where I came in earlier but left in time to get my son from daycare.
My boss was understanding and allowed me to work a more convenient shift. You can also check out the best companies for working mothers to target your job search to companies with family-friendly benefits. You have to remember that married couples have their date nights, or at least times where they hand the kids off to each other.
As if this advice isn't tough enough to follow, you've also got to keep yourself from making negative comments to your friends, mother, or next-door neighbor if there's even a chance that you'll be overheard by your kid. Her work ethic has paid off: It didn't help that there were no single-mom role models in my life -- except, say, Madonna, who was also parenting solo at the time. Author, blogger and single mom Christine Coppa shares her advice for surviving and thriving as a single parent.
Single motherhood is hard work and you deserve time off every once in a while. Arrange a childcare swap with a mom friend you trust.
No one was keeping score of the unmade beds but me. Now I ditch morning chores and play blocks or color with JD instead of rushing to clean before we leave. This laidback approach takes a lot of pressure off me, and I know my son enjoys the extra quality time. So when my older brother put our new kitchen table together, I made a big deal about how awesome and helpful he was being in front of JD.
Congratulate Yourself I know this sounds silly, but if you live alone with your child, no one is going to pat you on the back when your kid is finally potty-trained or when you serve up a hot, healthy dinner after working all day. I do it all, and I deserve the recognition.
Always Be Prepared I never leave home without a sippy cup and snack of some kind. I also keep crayons, a coloring book, a few Matchbox cars and snack in my purse at all times. I stash clean clothes, snacks and juice boxes in my car.
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I sit on the living room floor with a basket of clean laundry and fold while JD races cars on a ramp. I can also hold up a shirt to quiz JD on his colors, or encourage him to pair socks together.
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Work, play and even some sneaky learning gets done and everyone is happy. Skip to main content. Facebook Pinterest Twitter Comments.